Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Macy Our Medical Miracle

*Warning...this is a long post and full of medical information* 

Macy's medical challenges have challenged us since day 1.  We don't know any different, although sometimes we get a sense of some normalcy, and then we get a punch in the gut.  If you recall our last medical post in 2013, I mentioned being referred to endocrinology.  Well after some different tests between metabolism, GI, and endocrinology it was determined that Macy is just small.  This is just who she is. So we went about our lives.....daily medications, as needed antibiotics and nebulizers, our random needs to check blood sugar, and a couple of random hospital stays for pneumonia and GI issues.  For us, that is about as "normal" as we can get.

So here are some updates: 

Cardiology

 
Sadly, our cardiologist passed away last summer due to a long battle with cancer.  Her name was Joyce Hubbard.  She was an amazing lady who seemed to truly understand Macy.  As I stood over Macy's isolate at two days old in the NICU at Riley, she approached me.  She looked at me (as I stood with tears streaming down my cheeks) and said, "this is not your fault".  That has stuck with me every day along this journey.  She will be missed!

We now have a new cardiologist.  He saw us inpatient a few times, so we are very excited he accepted us as new patients.  Our visit with Dr. Schamberger in April went great!  He said she looks very good from a heart standpoint.  He wants to see her back for our annual visit, but will only be doing an EEG and no ECHO.  He will repeat another ECHO in two years, unless we have a reason to take a look.  He also said the words "early adulthood" when discussing her next open heart surgery.  This is GREAT NEWS!!!

Cardio/Genetics

Riley has a new specialist that has joined the hospital.  Dr. Ware joined Riley from Cincinnati Children's Hospital.  She is a Cardio Geneticist She basically looks at patients with heart defects and looks for a genetic connection.  She is almost positive Macy's problems stem from a genetic issue.  She finds it extremely hard to believe she would just be born with all of these combined problems.  We had some genetic testing done in 2008, and found nothing.  She honestly has no idea either, and so far no one has found another child like Macy with her combinations of defects.  She is definitely UNIQUE! 

There is a new genetic test we can have done that may show us some more.  It would be completed on Jeremy, me, and Macy so that they can compare all of our genes.  If Macy has an abnormal gene, and Jeremy and mine are normal it may shed some lights on what specific gene caused her problems.  However, sometimes this test reveals things about us that we may not want to know such as adult illnesses (such as cancers and other illnesses) that we have a predisposition for in the future.  We would be protected with our current health insurance under a health act, but finding these things out could harm any future life insurance policies or any private health insurances.  At this time, we have decided to wait on this test. 

Metabolism

Last time we saw one of our favorite doctors, Dr. Hainline, was in October.  As always her size is a huge discussion at all of our appointments, but I think he had just come to the realization that this is just who she is.  He does however think that she is self-regulating her protein (since she is technically supposed to be on a low protein diet).  She does not like meat!  She tells everyone she is a vegetarian, which isn't true since she eats some chicken, fish, and eggs, lol.  He suggested a gluten free diet because much of it is low protein and she may actually then eat more.  We attempted some gluten free items, but it didn't seem to make much of a difference....and sometimes she ate less because she didn't like the taste of some of the items.

The drink he started us on a few years ago, was refused multiple times by insurance.  1 case costs $250 out of pocket,  That is $250 for a total of 24 drinks.  At that time she was going through 1 case in 8 days.  We got lucky and found it on Ebay for $60-80 per case.  But once again that is $60-80 every 8 days.  Not easy on the checkbook!  After insurance denied us again, I knew it wasn't something we could keep doing.  We switched up her nutrition some, and started her on 1 drink in the morning with breakfast, and whole milk mixed with carnation in the evening.  We have since switched to almond milk instead of whole milk, and now to a mix of almond milk and half and half  (for weight gain purposes).  Regardless, the drinks don't seem to be helping.....

That is where ENDOCRINOLOGY comes into play AGAIN.

We headed back Friday the 19th for a follow-up with Endocrinology.  We've been on an annual basis since our first meeting a few years ago.  At this visit, they said she gained some weight and height, but has actually fallen off of her own growth curve.  And since her own growth curve is well below the norm, that isn't good.  She is actually eating like a champ, so it's unexplainable.  Dr. E wanted to repeat a bone age x-ray to compare from last year.  This x-ray is done in radiology, and is simply an x-ray of Macy's wrist. This determines how much more growth she has left.  Which in her case is a lot.  Her bones are measuring a couple years behind. 

 
Then Dr. E told us that she wanted to run some labs to recheck some more things.  These are all things we have already checked before, but things can often change over time.  We rechecked for celiac disease, as well as her thyroid, two tests for growth hormones, and a full metabolic panel.  This sweet girl walked right in and took it like a champ.  Not even a flinch.  Makes me proud, yet breaks my heart into pieces!  She is AMAZING!



I left that appointment and had that "punch in the gut" feeling again.  I have said to people before that sometimes I feel like we are just floating along living our "normal", and then BAM..it hits again.  Do we let our guard down too much?  Is this God's way of reminding us about our true "normal" or how unique Macy is?  I can't answer that, and frankly it doesn't matter.  All I know is that we are a strong family, and we have an unbelievably strong little girl.  For us this is just another uphill climb.  As long as we hold hands and pull each other along we'll be fine.

I called last Tuesday for some answers on these labs since they had been the source to my lack of sleep all week.  No lack of sleep actually due to the unknown, but a lack of sleep because I know what a life changer all of this can be if these labs come back abnormal.  The nurse returned my call and verified that some of the labs came back abnormal.  Macy's thyroid levels are off, but we can leave it alone for now and recheck in August.  Both labs for her growth hormones were off as well.  This warrants a 4-5 hour test to check her hormones more in-depth. We run into some problems regarding this test due to Macy having ketotic hypoglycemia. 

We were supposed to get some more answers about this test and how we are going to accomplish it this week at our visit with Dr. Hainline, however due to an emergency they called and canceled.  Due to him being one of the only ones that do his job, he is scheduling out into December.    He is my "go to guy" for any answers I need.  Knowing we are on a time crunch because this test is scheduled for July 14th at the Riley Infusion Center, they put my through to the nurse.  Dr. Hainline has okayed the test, and wants to give her a trial run at home with being NPO (no food or drink) for an extended period of time.  Uuggghh, not what I really want to do, but we'll do it :)  If at any time during the test her blood sugar drops, we will stop the test.  I had a few more questions, and she has already called back and answered them. 

It seems like this could be a simple solution to her growth problems, and we pray it works out that way.  Although with Macy not much is simple due to her multi-systematic defects.  There is a lot that goes into looking at what may truly be causing problems...could it be a lack of a hormone?  Could it be the function of her liver?  Her heart?  There is also a lot that goes into starting a new medication for her.   Could it harm her liver?  Could it be too much for her heart?  Therefore we often have to get all our specialists on board any new decisions.  That includes pediatrician, cardiologist, endocrinologist, ENT, GI, metabolism, and genetics. 

We will definitely know more following the test on July 14th.  Please continue to pray for answers for Macy, knowledge for our doctors, and patience for Jeremy and I as we once again navigate another unknown. 

Saturday, June 27, 2015

What on Earth Have We Been Up To Lately?

To sum it up, we've been busy, busy, busy....and having lots of fun!

We'll start with me...

I am getting ready to start my 13th year of teaching!  I am still teaching kindergarten, and I absolutely love it!  Kindergarten is my calling :)  I have the ENL inclusion classroom for kindergarten, meaning any student that speaks multiple languages is placed in my classroom.  The question I get continually asked when people find out that I am the ENL inclusion teacher is, "how many languages do you speak?"  English, and a teeny, tiny bit of Spanish.  We don't speak other languages in my room, we immerse the students in English (with lots of visuals).  I have such a diverse classroom, and it is truly amazing to see all of these students blend together in one room and turn into a classroom family! 


Jeremy and I have never been "unhealthy", but often lose track of our health and fitness when things in life creep up on us.  We made a decision in February that we can't lose track of ourselves anymore.  If we want to be true role models for our children, health and fitness is also part of that.  We have made a lot of changes in our lives, and are now working out 6-7 days a week!  It has been such a wonderful change in our lives, and a true bonding experience for us.  I am by no means health expert or trainer, but in some upcoming posts I will post what I have discovered about myself and what seems to be working for me.



Jeremy....

Due to our change in health and exercise, Jeremy is running the best he has in a few years.  He often runs during his lunch break to save time at home for family time.  He is the best husband and father I have ever known!  I don't just say that because I am married to the man, but it is so true!  Anyone who knows him can see his love and dedication to his family! 

 
Jeremy started a new job in December.  He still works for the state, but he is in a new role and at a new location.  He loves his new team, and is doing a great job in his new role!  It is wonderful to see him come home at night satisfied with his job.  Since I last posted he became fully vested with the State as well!  We are so proud of him!

Jeremy and I just returned to reality from a cruise.  We left the kids with my parents and headed out for 7 days.  It was AMAZING!  For the past 6 years, we have taken a "just us" trip every other year.  It has been great for our marriage, and I advise all couples to try to take some "just us" trips as often as you are able to!
 

Miss Macy....
 
Well, there is a lot to tell about Macy....and I will save the medical for it's own post later.  Otherwise, Macy is doing great!  She just finished 3rd grade.  She had an amazing school year with an amazing teacher!  She only missed 2 days the entire year and had perfect attendance 3 out of the 4 quarters.  That is quite the feat for Macy!  She also finished the school year on the honor roll.  This success was quite a turn around from our challenging 2nd grade year.  Second grade can be an adjustment for all students due to the independence and responsibility expected, but it was a big challenge for Macy. With the help of her teacher, we ended up pursing testing for Macy and discovered that she has some cognitive challenges.  She had some challenges with her processing speed as well as her short-term memory.  Due to these challenges she qualified for an IEP.  Her IEP allows her some pull-out assistance with math, as well as tests.  It has been great for her! 

 
She is extremely excited to start 4th grade.  She is in many activities, and even took to a new sport since my last post.  I can't wait to tell you about all of her fun activities she is in in an upcoming post!

McKenna....aka Big Mac...aka Macaroni...

 
Well this little girl is full of spunk...just like both of her Grandmas!  She is quite the athlete as well! Last time I posted McKenna was only 3......she is now "five and a half"!  She always adds that "half" in there, lol!  She is getting ready to start kindergarten this year, and couldn't be more ready.  She is reading some sight words, as well as sounding out simple words.  She loves to learn!  She is constantly playing school, hospital, and anything make-believe with her sister than she can think of. 

 
Lately she has been testing us with a little attitude.  I remember Macy going though this as well, but sometimes with the gap in the girls' ages I forget about it until is slaps me in the face.  Don't let me fool you, she is as sweet as they come....but in the comfort of her own home she likes to give a little sass.  McKenna is also involved in lot of activities and sports, and I can't wait to tell you all about it!

Sadly, in April, our beloved dog passed away.  Tucker was 12 years old, and came to live with us as a puppy, only one week after Jeremy and I got married.  He was the best dog in the world, and is extremely missed by all of us!  We love you Tucker!


So in a nutshell, we are doing FANTASTIC!  We've done numerous vacations, trips to the lake, special outings, concerts, family fun activities, and the list goes on.  We are a very busy family that thinks family time and life experiences are some of the best things we can give our girls!  Check back in a few days for our next post:  Macy Our Medical Miracle.




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Friday, June 26, 2015

We're Back!

I know, I know.....it's been forever since I have blogged!  Honestly, I have used Facebook as my means of updating family and friends over the last 2 1/2 years.  Well, I have decided Facebook is great for shorter updates, but with some changes happening, I feel this is definitely the best place for longer more in-depth updates! 


Here are some posts you can look forward to in the next week or so......What on Earth Have We Been Up To Lately?; Macy Our Medical Miracle; Our Family and Beyond:  Changes Happening; Sports, Activities, Busy Life....Oh My!

I look forward to sharing with you!

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